Did I Over React

My father-in-law used to call me baby girl and sweetheart when he spoke to me. It made me feel a bit uncomfortable, so I asked my husband if it was normal behavior for his dad to speak like this. He said he was not aware of it, and he decided to confront his dad about it. Since then, his parents have stopped contacting me and I rarely hear from them. They try to be nice when we do come in contact, but I can tell that it is fake and vice versa for me. 


When I asked my husband about why they are acting weird, he blamed me and said that they aren't used to someone who behaves like me and that I'm just so different from other (normal) people. He said that they pick up on my negative energy and that is why they keep their distance. 


I feel like my husband should be trying to bridge the gap, instead of distancing me from the rest of his family. Any advice on what I should do or say to my husband or my in-laws to get things going in the right direction?

What’s your opinion 🤨?


Location: Miami, FL, USA

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